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My Wife Doesn’t Take Care of Herself; I Feel Disgusted

“My wife doesn’t take care of her body and mind. I feel disgusted by her.” Click and read what our counselor advises this man!

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I have been married for 9 years with two kids. Recently, I am left dissatisfied sexually. I spoke to my husband about this issue. The longer I go without sex, I am afraid of committing zina. He says it’s due to stress that he cannot satisfy me. I have done everything that I can to de-stress him, seduce him and initiate sex but nothing works. He can’t last long enough. Funny thing is that he also wants to have another wife. While it is his right to marry, he refuses to divorce me as I asked. I told him that it would be unfair if he married for his own pleasure (and because it’s sunnah). What about my needs? I also need sex just as much men need it too. So, if he can’t satisfy me at least don’t keep me suffering. I have reached the point that all I think about is only sex. I could be doing anything and sex is in my mind. I have become cranky because of it. I know masturbation is haram and I understand that he cannot perform but I don’t know what to do anymore.

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