Nouman Ali Khan talks about how to go about finding a spouse, he encourages the youth to get to know the opposite gender in a respectful way where modesty & manners used in the interaction. You can get to know the person by asking others about them or asking there parent’s to allow you to talk to them where other people are involved, hence you can both answer the important questions before marriage instead of becoming emotionally attached and then slowly falling into a haram relationship.