Home › Multimedia › Videos › Grieving Over A Loved One? Ask Allah For Help aaa Grieving Over A Loved One? Ask Allah For Help About Islam 24 January, 2019 Heartbreak affects us all. For those of you who have lost a loved one, it is OK to grieve. You must understand this is the decree of Allah and you must ask Allah for help, to give you strength to get through this difficult time.