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Focus on your future marriage and future husband.
Salamu ‘Alaykum sister,
Thank you for writing to us. Congratulations on your upcoming marriage! It must be an exciting time for you.
Your question pertaining to your ex-fiancée is pretty much self-answered sis. You stated you loved your current fiancée. Regarding your ex-fiancée, you stated at times you feel something for him, and at times you feel nothing. It appears clear whom you really love and who you feel the most security with.
While I do not know why you and your x broke up, there was a reason. To re-visit past relationships hoping to rebuild what was lost is often a path to disappointment. I believe, sister, that if your heart often feels nothing, then nothing is there. Additionally, as a woman, I would be wary of an ex who came around while I was engaged and tried to get with me. That shows a total lack of respect.
My suggestion, dear sister, would be to immediately cease conversation with your X and focus on your future marriage and future husband. I would imagine if your fiancée found out you were talking to your X, he would be very sad. As you sound very happy sister in life right now, I suggest in sha’ Allah putting the past in the past and leaving it there. There are many tricks Satan uses to lure us away from Allah (swt) and the blessings Allah (swt) has given us.
So I ask you dear sister that you re-read your question; you have already answered it!
You are in our prayers. Please let us know how you are doing!
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