Q I am an older American Christian married to a much younger Muslim. He told me he would move here if we were married but after completing the paperwork he changed his mind and said he could not leave his country due to family obligations. I work a government job and have only 7 years left to retire so I can't move to his country. While we were trying to figure out what to do his communication with me became less and less to the point of days with not one message. Several months ago he began telling me that his mom was pushing him to marry someone there and have kids even though he told me he did not want kids. I was so upset we began arguing over it constantly. Then his cousin tells me to look at his Facebook page and there was a new pic posted of him in a suit and Arabic comments that when I translated said "congratulations to our groom!” When I confronted him he denied it and promptly blocked me from his Facebook page. Now months later when I finally sent him the divorce papers he is refusing to sign them and says he does not want a divorce. When I asked what really happened with this other woman he says "we made a contract of marriage but I couldn't continue" so after saying he had NOT married someone else now what he is telling me is that he DID marry someone else! Knowing that this would hurt me to the core yet he did it anyway. How can his mother and aunt and father have absolutely no regard for my feelings? I am a good person and did nothing but love this woman's son. I don't understand. He says it is all his mother's idea.