This cannot be emphasized enough, the importance of fulfilling sexual needs in marriage. One of the biggest issues in marriage is that the wife or the husband are not having their sexual needs fulfilled in marriage. 

For a man to be sexually fulfilled it is easy because it is a straight forward process. For women it is more complicated. A lot of men don’t understand that they think that a woman’s sexual needs is like a man’s so all they focus on is their own sexuality. Their own fulfillment. 

In Islam scholars told us about how we should enjoy sexual intimacy with our wives a long time ago. This was long before it was discovered in the West. The scholars advised that it was so important for men to engage in foreplay with their wives in order for women to enjoy intimacy.

The rule of thumb is to make sure that your wife finishes before you do. A woman can carry on once she has finished but a man can’t and this will ensure that both are satisfied.